Vampire Diaries 2.19 Promo

DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD= On the one hand I am mildly pleased that the writers seem to be aware of just how much misogyny they've written into Damon's character? (they are aware right? No one could write the line 'you know how I get when I'm angry' and not see how much that's a narrative of domestic abuse) On the other hand OH MY GOD NO WHY DO I HAVE TO WATCH THIS WHY DAMON GTFO MY SCREEN.